Troubles in Setting Goals

What do you do if you realize that the you no longer want to pursue your current set goals? Do you really stop? Maybe. First of all, you need to stop whatever you’re doing and self reflect. Why do you need to do this? The reason is so that you will find out your true feelings and if what you’re feeling is indeed what you want to happen.

Troubles in Setting Goals

Basically, during the self reflection, what you want to find out are your feelings and what you really want to happen with your life. So, ask yourself the appropriate questions. Then, write them down on paper so that you can conduct a proper review. Then, write down several reasons why achieving goals, your current goals, is not what you want to do right now. Also, write down what will happen if you stop. Essentially pros and cons.

Once you’re done with that, the next step is to thoroughly examine the items you’ve written. If you feel that stopping seems to be better, then hold on to that decision for a while. Consult a friend and ask if your current life goals are worth the wait or worth ending right now. If you get a yes, then perhaps it’s right to stop. If not, and you feel the same, then don’t stop and just focus on giving yourself motivation to keep pushing forward.

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Priority Goals

Normally, there are various things that you have to choose from in order to set a major goal. Which goals or tasks should you set first? How do you know which one to prioritize? You can do it based on what you want, but the best way to do it is to base it on its importance.

Priority Goals

What is important? Usually, it’s something that will have a great impact to your life. Additionally, it should be done as soon as possible since the opportunity to do it may not come again anytime soon or may not come at all.

This means that if the task or goal is a luxury and will only have a minimal impact to your life as a whole, then you can opt to move it down the ladder of importance. But you can still do this goal however it should not be treated as a major goal. Hence, you can do this in between important goals. That is, it will serve as your stress reliever.